Is it really what you think it is?

When you first get into a relationship the guy can lay down his cards and be the most romantic and amazing guy you've ever met. "Every man has their true colours" he'll want to spend every Minuit of the day with you, he'll make great effort with you as long as it takes to keep you 'his'. From my experience of being in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years I can tell you you've got a keeper if he still acts the way he did when he was trying to get you! Unfortunately this was too good to be true for me, I became the last option, we would never speak unless I was the person to text first, he began to see me less and eventually never made time for me. The effort he made at the beginning vanished and became me chasing him wanting to reveal back what was lost. This unfortunately did not help, nothing went through to the guy and I became so lonely. I would never wake up with a smile from a good morning text, that something slowly became nothing.